Your Ultimate Guide to Feeling the Love on Valentine’s Day: Single Edition

Feb 10

Valentine's Day is often thought of as a time to celebrate love between couples, with heart-shaped cards, flowers, and romantic dinners dominating the scene. For many, this day can bring feelings of loneliness or frustration if you're single, especially as the world seems to turn its attention to romantic relationships. The emphasis on couples can make it easy to feel left out or unimportant, particularly when you don't have a "Valentine" to share the day with. However, the truth is, there are countless ways to embrace the spirit of love—even when you're flying solo.

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be a reminder of what you don’t have. Instead, it can be an opportunity to celebrate yourself, the love you have for your friends and family, and the connections that make your life rich and meaningful. Whether you’re celebrating solo, with friends and family, or practising some self-care, there are plenty of activities that will allow you to feel loved and appreciated.

Here’s our complete guide to making the most of Valentine’s Day, regardless of your relationship status.

Solo Activities: Embrace the Power of "Me Time"

Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to focus on yourself. Taking time to nurture your own well-being is a beautiful form of self-love.

Take a Personal Staycation: You don’t need to travel far to feel like you’ve had an escape. Transform your home into a sanctuary. Dim the lights, light some candles, and create a soothing atmosphere with soft music and cosy blankets. Or just visit a local hotel or Bed and Breakfast and spend the day lounging around and enjoying what the place has to offer. Whether you choose to relax alone or with a loved one, this setting will help you recharge.

Pamper Yourself with a Spa Day: Treat yourself to a DIY spa experience. Run a hot bath with bath salts, oils, or bubbles. Follow it up with a face mask, skincare routine and perhaps a manicure or pedicure. If you’re feeling extra, create a calming bath playlist and sink into relaxation. Just set the day out to take care of yourself and take it slow

Enjoy a Movie or TV Series Marathon: Why not binge-watch your favourite films or start a new series? Consider choosing a theme—romantic comedies, if that's too close to home, adventure films, or something empowering to enjoy while you relax and unwind.

Explore Your Hobbies: Whether it’s painting, writing, cooking or DIY crafting, spend some time engaging in an activity you love. This is a great way to reconnect with yourself and your passions. It's also a great way to gift yourself with something, a new knitted sweater, a poem about self love or maybe a delicious meal to enjoy.

Treat Yourself to Something Sweet: Bake your favourite treat or experiment with new recipes. Chocolate-dipped strawberries, cookies, or cupcakes are perfect for this occasion. If you’re really feeling creative, you can try out a new recipe or even attend an online cooking class.

Celebrate with Friends and Family: Make the Most of the Love Around You

Valentine’s Day isn’t just about romantic love; it’s a celebration of all kinds of relationships. Spending quality time with friends and family is a great way to feel connected and appreciated.

Host a Game Night or Dinner: Gather your friends or family for a cosy night of board games, card games, or trivia. You can make it so everyone can contribute and share their favourite dishes and add to the over festivities. This is a fun way to bond and create lasting memories.

Take a Day Trip Together: Whether it’s a visit to a nearby city, a hike in nature or a stop at a local museum, planning an outing with loved ones can create meaningful experiences and deepen connections. Check out community events such as concerts, theatre productions, or art exhibits. Spending time with others while enjoying an event is a great way to feel included and enjoy the day.

Practise Self-Care: Feel the Love Within

Sometimes, the best way to feel love is to take care of yourself. Practising self-care helps you appreciate your own worth and gives you the space to reflect on your own journey.

Reflect and Journal: Spend some time writing in a journal. You can reflect on your achievements, set new goals, or express gratitude. It’s a great opportunity to focus on personal growth and embrace the love you have for yourself. Take a break from the hustle and bustle of life by engaging in mindfulness exercises. Practise deep breathing or use guided meditation to centre your mind and body.

Valentine's Day is a perfect reminder that love comes in many forms, and sometimes, the most important love is the one you give to yourself. Whether you’re spending the day with friends, family, or enjoying some quality "me time," take a moment to reflect on the people and passions that truly make your life meaningful. This day is about embracing the connections that have shaped you and the love you have. So, if you’re feeling the weight of being single on this day, remember that the love you deserve is already within you. Surround yourself with positivity and embrace the beauty of self-love—it’s the most fulfilling kind there is.